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[video available on spotify] i have a little crush right now.  and while this crush is really not that serious, it was a wake-up call to realize i can’t even make eye contact with this guy. i want to get comfortable with talking to boys. so today,  we're g...

Highlights

Crushes can be lighthearted, but they often reveal deeper insecurities we don’t always see. For Emma Chamberlain, a simple attraction became a mirror into long-held fears about rejection and self-worth rooted in past experiences.
02:26
A kiss followed by visible disgust in high school deeply damaged my confidence
07:31
Prefers the opening line 'Is this seat taken? Do you want it to be?'
21:54
Smiling makes one more attractive during flirting
29:59
Dancing with a guy is a fear, especially when sober
37:01
Send a photo related to a previous conversation instead of a generic message
41:54
I need to see myself as a sexy goddess and let go of the fear of rejection.

Chapters

What happens when a crush brings up old emotional scars?
00:00
How do you test your flirting skills when fear holds you back?
05:04
Can you flirt authentically without feeling awkward or insincere?
09:46
What small gestures build connection—and which ones feel impossible?
24:29
Is playful banter the key to meaningful romantic sparks?
32:32
Can someone truly learn to flirt—and believe they’re worthy of love?
41:54

Transcript

Emma Chamberlain: Let's begin this episode with a story. I have a little crush right now, okay? A little crush. And when I say a little crush, I literally mean a little crush. This is a crush. So little that it will never leave the confines of my mind, oka...